This Feminist is married. This is a short blog, but it’s something I needed to say. There is a lot of bad press surrounding the term “feminist”. These are being spread around to discourage younger women from openly calling themselves “feminists”.
“Feminism is the radical notion that women are people too.”—Cheris Kramarae and Paula Treichler
It is amazing how often I come across this type comment: “With that kind of attitude you’ll never get a guy to go out with you. This kind of mentality is hurting women.”
- This statement is based on the sexist idea that the most important thing for women is how men will perceive them;
- It is better to single than being in a relationship with someone who doesn’t respect you;
- I’m married, so … Yes, you can be a feminist and find love. You can be a strong independent woman and still live happily ever after.