Have you ever wondered where all your dreams go? Have you ever felt like there is something more to life?
Sometimes people will tell you to make small changes to be liked and to fit in. They are genuinely trying to help you and have probably themselves made changes to fit in. Unfortunately, this is a losing game that keeps people from uninhibitedly experiencing and expressing their true selves. It’s start with a minor change, then another and before you know it, you become a whole new person just to fit in. That’s when we start wondering what happened to the all the dreams we used to have like there’s something missing or hallow in our lives.
“Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.” – Unknown
We constantly meet people who have something to say and who judge wrongly and through our attitude and our way of acting in the face of life. Don’t let anybody tell you who you are. Each of us is unique and extraordinary. We all have a way of being different, to see the world, to live a life. Your identity doesn’t belong to anyone. Why should you measure the world by someone else’s design?
Respect yourself and above all, be true to yourself. It’s our “weirdness” that makes us unique and special. Embrace it. The best part is once we embrace who we truly are, we no longer feel the need to please everyone.
“Friendly reminder that “doing your best” does not mean working yourself to the point of mental breakdown. ” – Unknown
Wouldn’t you prefer to create a life that feels good on the inside, not just one that looks good on the outside?
It is not healthy to live in expectation others, nor under the constant need of obtaining their approval. You truly don’t have to try so hard to get people to like you. You don’t have to change a single thing about you. It’s time to take back your life. Cut the strings, get your freedom back. It’s the only way you will find your true self.
You will find yourself in you. You will never find yourself anywhere else. We’re all different. We can’t build a mould and expect people to all fit that mould.
You owe yourself the love that you so freely give other people. The good news is that you don’t have to be stuck with an identity that doesn’t feel true to your core.
“Love is the great miracle cure. Loving ourselves works miracles in our lives. ” – Louise Hay
There’s more to you than people know. The idea that identity is crucial to who we are and that we should respect everyone’s identities that they choose for themselves
Remember all you wished for? Believe it will be true. Don’t ever stop believing. Giving up is not an option. Set a goal. Believe it. Achieve it. Follow your dreams without trying to hurt anyone who gets in your way.
If you don’t go after what you want you will never have it. If you don’t ask, the answer is always no. If you don’t step forward, you’re always in the same place.” – Unknown