You should never get into a secret relationship. A mistake is an accident. If you are cheating and lying, you aren’t making a mistake, you are making an intentional choice. Stop hiding behind the words “It was just a mistake” when you get caught. If we all understood this, we would also understand that our anger belong on the spouse who cheated, not the one they cheated with. Your anger belongs on him. It doesn’t matter what that person did. The one who stood there and told you he/she loved you and chose to betray you is the real culprit.
I never understood why some women get mad at the other women and somehow forget to lay any blame at the feet of the man who cheated.
“If another woman steels you man, there’s no better revenge than letting her keep him. Real men can’t be stolen” – Lessons thought by life