Let’s be clear. She may agree to date you. She may even say she loves you. She may even marry you. She may even have your children. But she will never be yours.
No matter what your relationship status is, you have no claim to her body. She is the only one who makes decision regarding her body. No matter how long you’ve been dating or if you are married. She makes the rules regarding her body. In the same way, you make the rules concerning your body.
Being in a relationship with someone doesn’t give you ownership rights. We are not objects to be possessed. We are human being. We share our lives, we don’t give it away.
Just in case it wasn’t clear enough. She will never be yours.
The idea that we own the ones we love is at the source of violence. “If I can’t have her, no one will.” The same can be said of parents who killed their children instead of risking loosing them in a custody battle. We do not have ownership over someone else life.